Congruent with Lisa Carpenter | The truth beneath success. Why it never feels like enough.
You’ve built success that looks impressive on the outside, but inside, it never feels like enough. Congruent is the podcast for ambitious professionals and A-type high achievers who are tired of burning out, pushing harder, and still wondering why success doesn’t feel fulfilling.
Hosted by Master Coach Lisa Carpenter, Congruent goes beyond highlight reels and exposes the truth beneath success. With 20+ years of experience and a track record that includes thousands of coaching hours and hundreds of podcast episodes, Lisa brings the authority, depth, and honesty that ambitious leaders crave but rarely hear.
Each week you’ll hear raw interviews, live coaching conversations, and bold insights designed to help you reclaim your energy, strengthen your emotional wellbeing, redefine achievement, and step into powerful self-leadership. If you’re ready for success that finally feels as good as it looks, this is your wake-up call.
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Episodes
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
Tuesday Dec 10, 2024
In today’s episode 293 of the Full Frontal Living Podcast, we're revisiting a concept that can completely shift how you show up in the world—creating and stepping into your alter ego. This isn't about pretending to be someone you're not. It’s about unlocking the most powerful version of YOU that’s already inside. I’m sharing how embracing my own alter ego, Tyler, has propelled me to new heights—professionally and personally.
What You’ll Learn:
What an Alter Ego Really Is: A sneak peek into what it means to embody your highest self and how this can radically change your life.
How I Transformed: Discover how embracing my alter ego helped me break through fears and achieve what once seemed impossible.
A Simple Symbol of Power: How something as small as a red lipstick can become a powerful, everyday reminder of stepping into your full potential.
Facing Your Fears: How I moved past society’s pressures and embraced my full energy, no apologies needed.
The Power of Choice: We all have the ability to choose our path. I’ll share how the choices I made (and the ones you can make) directly shaped my transformation.
Living Through Fearful Times: I’ll be real about the challenges I faced during uncertain times and how my alter ego helped me navigate through it with strength and grace.
Highlights:
How writing your alter ego document sets a clear, powerful intention for the life you want to manifest. Grab mine here.
Finding balance: How to combine boldness with kindness, and why both are essential for true transformation.
The commitment to your growth is where the magic happens. In this episode, I’ll share how this commitment can fuel massive change.
Your alter ego is waiting. It’s the perfect time of year to work on this. What do you want 2025 to hold for you? It’s time to step into your full potential, create the life you want, and show up unapologetically. Are you ready to take the first step?
Until next time, live fiercely and unapologetically.
Resources:
Get your copy of Lisa's step-by-step guide to creating your own Alter-Ego.
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Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
Tuesday Dec 03, 2024
In this empowering episode, Lisa dives into the transformative process of stepping into your full potential through the creation of an alter ego. Inspired by Todd Herman’s The Alter Ego Effect, Lisa shares how tapping into the power of choice has changed her life and her growth journey. This episode is all about using your inner power to embody the person you truly want to become.
KEY HIGHLIGHTS:
Creating Your Alter Ego for Transformation:
Lisa introduces her alter ego, Tylere, a version of herself who is confident, proud of her achievements, and unafraid to shine.
Tylere represents the qualities Lisa once struggled to embrace, such as self-confidence and being comfortable in the spotlight.
Modeling Success After Those You Admire:
Learn how adopting qualities from role models, like Beyoncé's alter ego Sasha Fierce, can accelerate your transformation.
Lisa discusses the impact of identifying these traits to shape a new vision for yourself.
Overcoming Personal Hurdles:
Hear Lisa share her personal story of learning to receive appreciation, balancing giving and receiving, and setting healthy boundaries.
She opens up about her growth in areas like business confidence, finances, and aligning with her core values—integrity, community, and generosity.
Balancing Masculine and Feminine Energies:
Lisa emphasizes the importance of harmonizing both energies to prevent burnout and increase effectiveness in life and business.
Learn how embracing the feminine energy of slowing down can help you find balance and peace.
Harnessing the Power of Your Words and Thoughts:
Words and thoughts shape your reality. Lisa encourages listeners to redefine their vision by focusing on empowering words and mindset.
Tools like her alter ego document can help you take control of your story and start living with intention.
Personal Narratives and Stories of Growth:
Lisa reflects on her journey from overcoming doubt and embracing intuition to her success in balancing work and rest.
She opens up about personal life transformations, including leaving her marriage, creating a family that aligns with her values, and finding peace in her life and business.
Resources and Tools:
Todd Herman's The Alter Ego Effect
Lisa’s own Alter-Ego document to help guide you in creating your own alter-ego.
Final Thoughts: Lisa wraps up the episode by reminding listeners that their power to choose who they want to become is in their hands. By tapping into this power and embracing their unique gifts, they can create the life they’ve always desired.
Thank you for tuning in! Don’t forget to subscribe, rate, and leave a review. Let’s continue to explore the power within us all.
Tuesday Nov 19, 2024
Tuesday Nov 19, 2024
In episode 291, I had the privilege of sitting down with Dr. Jade Teta, a naturopathic physician, fitness expert, and author, to dive deep into the transformative power of choice. We talk about how the choices we make – consciously or unconsciously – shape our lives, relationships, and even our growth.
Key Insights:
Awareness is the First Step: Jade highlights how understanding our past patterns and unconscious decisions is the starting point for true empowerment. When we recognize the unconscious stories that shape us, we can take control of our narrative.
Emotional Guidance with AFRAID: Jade introduced the AFRAID acronym – Anger, Frustration, Resistance, Anxiety, Insecurity, and Depression. These emotions, often tied to our unconscious stories, can dictate our decisions. The trick? Feel them fully, but don’t let them run the show.
Choosing Growth Over Comfort: We often choose comfort over change, but Jade reminds us that growth comes when we step into discomfort. If we keep choosing the same old path, we stay stuck in negative patterns. But when we embrace discomfort, that’s when the magic happens.
Relationship Growth: Jade and I talk about how relationships can either elevate or hold us back. Sometimes, we have to make a choice: reframe and redefine the relationship for mutual growth, or let go for both to flourish. Either way, it’s about growing.
Radical Accountability: Jade emphasizes the importance of taking responsibility for our actions, emotions, and perceptions. He introduces the concept of radical accountability—owning it all. Setting healthy boundaries and recognizing that no one is responsible for our feelings but us is key to growth.
Rethinking Romance: We explore the traditional "you complete me" narrative and propose a shift to "you grow me." Relationships should be about mutual growth, not completion. This shift can create more depth and connection in your partnerships.
Living Authentically: Jade shares his views on the four major human drives: Power, Popularity, Pleasure, and Purpose. He encourages us to be true to our next-level selves and not fall into the trap of societal expectations. It’s all about authenticity.
Proactive Engagement with Life: Instead of accepting that “everything happens for a reason,” Jade urges us to actively create meaning and purpose in our lives. We are the creators of our own journey, and it’s time to own that responsibility.
Resources and Connections:
Jade Teta’s Work: Dive deeper into Jade’s approach with his Next Level Human coaching and certification programs at nextlevelhuman.com.
Recommended Reading: Jade’s latest book is packed with even more insights into creating a purposeful life and stepping into your next-level self. Click here to access.
Final Thoughts:
I’m so grateful for Jade’s wisdom in this episode. It’s a powerful reminder that we have the ability to choose our path and take control of our own growth. Whether it's in relationships, career, or personal development, we have the power to create change. Take responsibility for your choices, recognize your emotional patterns, and step into continuous growth.
Tune in to this episode for a profound conversation that’ll leave you feeling empowered and ready to make the next move on your path.
Tuesday Nov 05, 2024
Tuesday Nov 05, 2024
In episode 290, we revisit episode 180, where Lisa dives into why hiring a 1:1 coach is the fastest way to results and the mindset that is probably holding you back. In an era of self-help books and group programs at every turn, why is it that so many of you remain stuck when you "know" the thing holding you back? Have you ever considered that the belief you "should" have it figured out on your own IS the block keeping you stuck from taking action? That you're so focused on the problem you think you have that you're not able to see the problem you actually have?
Today's episode talks about the framework Lisa uses with her clients to get them to a place of taking action, and why her clients get the phenomenal results they do.
This is a hard hitting episode that will challenge you to ask yourself tough questions about working with a coach and what might be possible for you if you started working from the perspective that you know nothing.
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Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
Tuesday Oct 29, 2024
In Episode 289, we revisit Episode 183, where Lisa shares her perspective about the one ingredient you MUST put in to create success. There are no shortcuts, no easy buttons or any way to bypass this ONE important piece of the success puzzle. However, you must define it on your terms.
This isn't about doing more but being specific about what you're focused on, and how you're spending your time and energy.
In this episode, I'm sharing personal stories and insights from my own 11+ year journey, highlighting how the choices we make shape our paths and lead us toward achieving our goals.
Key Takeaways
Defining Success: Let’s get real—success doesn’t happen overnight. It’s the result of consistent effort and dedication. I’m here to remind you that it often takes longer than we expect, but that’s okay!
The Role of Expectations: Are your expectations holding you back? Learn how setting realistic goals can free you to embrace where you are right now, which is exactly where you need to be.
Self-Care Fundamentals: You can’t pour from an empty cup! Explore the must-haves for your self-care toolkit—rest, nutrition, and hydration are your best friends for maintaining energy and focus.
Daily Commitment: Success is built on the small, daily actions we take. Are you focusing on what’s working? It’s time to make decisions based on real data and progress!
Mindset Matters: Shift your thinking from scarcity to possibility. Acceptance of your current situation is the first step toward creating positive change.
Effort and Patience: Consistency is key! Show up for yourself every day, and give yourself the grace to grow through the ups and downs of the journey.
Join me as we explore how to harness the power to choose your path to success. Remember, you have the ability to create the life you desire—let’s embrace that journey together!
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Tuesday Oct 22, 2024
Tuesday Oct 22, 2024
In Episode 288, we revisit Episode 224, where Lisa breaks down exactly what an Energy Audit is and how it can benefit you and your ability to perform at your best.
She focuses on 3 main pillars that you are in relationship with:
Your Environment
Your Emotions
Your Body
And what happens when you take a deep dive into each and look at them through the lens of personal responsibility?
You can create all the time and energy you desire when you’re willing to let go of what isn’t serving you and commit to less with more discernment around how you want to feel as your guiding compass.
Lisa’s newest signature program, The Energy Accelerator (formerly the Energy Audit) is now open for waitlist registration. Join the 4 week program complete with Live Group Calls with Lisa and Daily prompts to let go of what isn't serving you.
Grab your place in line now: lisacarpenter.ca/energy
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Tuesday Oct 15, 2024
Tuesday Oct 15, 2024
Welcome to Episode 287 of The Full Frontal Living podcast where we revisit Lisa's 51st birthday, episode 251.
In this thought-provoking episode, Lisa candidly discusses and reflects on her 51 years of life, sharing lessons she's learned and wisdom she's gleaned over the years. She engages her listeners with insights about the importance of internal peace, personal growth and taking responsibility for their lives.
Stay tuned as she shares 61 lessons from her 51 years that include letting go of black-and-white thinking, the law of attraction as a science, and the importance of setting boundaries.
Listen as Lisa challenges societal norms, urging us to prioritize our own desires, and expresses the importance of understanding that no one outside of you has the answers.
This episode is a treasure trove of knowledge and inspiration, underscoring Lisa's core coaching values - self-integrity, responsibility, commitment, well-being and growth.
From discussing personal commitment, acknowledging age and inevitable change, to facing fear and doubt, she's going to take you on a transformative journey.
Each listener will undoubtedly find a lesson, an idea or a piece of wisdom that resonates with them.
Enjoy the episode.
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Thursday Oct 10, 2024
Thursday Oct 10, 2024
Welcome back to episode 286 of the Full Frontal Living podcast! Today we're revisiting a past episode and diving into a topic that hits close to home for many of us: "You're not lost or stuck."
Have you ever found yourself feeling lost or stuck in life? Wondering which path to take, or doubting your ability to navigate the unknown? Well, you're not alone. In today's episode, we'll explore the power of courage and how it can help us overcome fear and uncertainty.
I'll begin by sharing a personal experience that recently happened to me during my commute. As I found myself caught in traffic, running late for an important appointment, I realized an important lesson about being at peace with detours and surrendering to the journey.
I'll discuss the importance of having a clear vision and being honest with ourselves about what we truly want in life. So often, we label ourselves as "lost" when in reality, we have the answers within us. It just takes the courage to acknowledge and pursue our desires.
Join me as we explore the concept of being lost, finding our way, and the transformative power of embracing detours. If you're ready to break free from the limiting belief that you're lost or stuck, this episode is for you.
So grab a cup of tea, find a cozy spot, and let's embark on this empowering journey together. Remember, you're not lost or stuck. You have the courage within you to navigate life's uncertainties. Let's dive in!
Link to episode 245: How To Master Fear And Doubt And Take Control Of Your Life
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Wednesday Sep 04, 2024
Wednesday Sep 04, 2024
In episode 285, Lisa Carpenter dives into the transformative power of coaching and the pivotal role of personal choice. Feeling stuck or unsure? This episode is your guide to breakthrough! Tune in and start your journey toward empowerment and transformation.
Key Highlights:
The Role of a Coach: Discover how coaching offers fresh perspectives and vital support. While coaching isn't a necessity, it's a game-changer for those looking to grow and thrive.
Lisa’s Journey: Lisa shares her personal experience with coaching and how it’s been a catalyst for breaking free from self-limiting beliefs and enhancing her growth and relationships.
Feeling Stuck: Learn how coaching can help you navigate the feeling of being stuck and make powerful decisions. Embrace openness and a willingness to learn as your first steps toward transformation.
The Myth of Perfection: Challenge the belief that you need to have everything figured out. Individual coaching provides tailored guidance that’s often more impactful than group programs.
Retreat and Community: Insights from a recent retreat highlight the value of service, community, and personal investment in growth.
Boundaries and Discomfort: Understand the importance of setting boundaries and embracing discomfort as a path to significant personal growth.
Overcoming Procrastination: Tackle procrastination and vulnerability with personal awareness and proactive strategies.
Lisa’s Growth: Explore Lisa’s own journey of leadership, confronting self-deception, and empowering others.
Lisa urges you to break free from limiting beliefs, embrace self-compassion, and seek the support you need. Your power of choice is immense—make the decision today to transform your life.
Connect with Lisa Carpenter:
Website: LisaCarpenter.ca
Instagram: @LisaCarpenterInc
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Wednesday Aug 28, 2024
Wednesday Aug 28, 2024
Join Lisa Carpenter for episode 284 as she explores the provocative intersection of gratitude and emotional authenticity. This episode, aptly titled "F*ck Gratitude," unpacks why embracing our complex emotional landscape—including the not-so-positive emotions—is crucial for true self-awareness and growth.
What You'll Discover in This Episode:
Beyond Surface-Level Gratitude: Dive into why gratitude isn't about glossing over the tough stuff but engaging deeply with all our feelings.
Emotional Honesty: Lisa shares her personal insights on recognizing and processing challenging emotions like sadness and anger, highlighting how ignoring these feelings can impact our health and lead us into unhealthy habits.
Self-Care Redefined: Reflect with Lisa on your daily routines—are they nurturing or numbing? Learn how to genuinely care for your mental and emotional health.
The Dance of Resilience: Discover the balance between acknowledging hardships and fostering resilience, understanding that true strength involves confronting, not avoiding, our emotions.
Adapting and Evolving: Lisa discusses how recent global changes necessitate a shift in how we manage stress and anxiety without resorting to control or avoidance tactics.
From Lisa’s Heart:
Personal Vulnerability: Lisa opens up about her own struggles with emotional wellness despite an outward appearance of health, emphasizing the importance of internal congruence.
Tools for Emotional Well-being: Gain insights into practical strategies like meditation, yoga, and expressive release to manage your emotional state effectively.
Empowerment Through Emotion: Learn to harness your emotions as a source of power, not a point of weakness, and embrace the full spectrum of your human experience.
Don’t miss this transformative conversation that challenges conventional narratives about emotional health and personal growth. Embrace your power to feel deeply and live fully. Reflect on how you interact with your emotions. Are you more often nurturing or numbing? Commit to one small change towards supportive self-care and share your journey with us.
Thank you for joining us on this journey. Here's to being unapologetically you, in all your emotional complexity.
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Remember: It's perfectly okay to not be okay. Reach out, connect, and find support when you need it. Your emotional wellbeing is worth it.


